Setting Parameters?

Do you set parameters for the children with whom you come in contact?

When I assess or counsel children, I know immediately through their body language and expression if they have come from a family that provided fair, consistent and respectful guidance. I am often shocked that parents do not recognize the value of setting limits and boundaries for themselves let alone their children.

It is impossible to teach children to respect civil law if they have not experienced it in their home environment. Drunk driving, sexual abuse, statutory rape and drug abuse are only some of the manifestations of not setting boundaries for children early in life.

Teens respond favorably and are more motivated when they understand the moral implications, legal and social consequences of their actions.

Zari Alipour, Ph.D.
Making Wise Choices in a Disruptive Age
www.DrZari.com
Zari@DrZari.com
310-849-4680

Dr. Zari is a psychologist for adolescents and adults. She teaches adolescents how to make decisions that are in their best interests and empowers teachers, counselors and parents with the words and accountability tools that reinforce healthy choices.